Research shows that trans folx want families at the same rate as our cis peers. Families can be built in so many ways. We want you to have the resources you need to help support your desires.
Queer Family Building Resources
- Family Equality– Creating a world where everyone can experience family. Founded in 1979 at the National March on Washington for Lesbian and Gay Rights, Family Equality has spent more than 40 years ensuring that everyone has the freedom to find, form, and sustain their families by advancing equality for the LGBTQ+ community.
- Trans Family Building Resources– From planning for fertility before transition to advocating for yourself in the fertility doctor’s office to supporting your family once you form it.
- Gay Parents To Be– A little binary in their approach, but they do have a trans family building page.
- Just a Baby– Similar to a dating app where you can find sperm and egg donors, surrogates, partners or coparents.
Birthing and Parenting Support
- Birthing and Breast or Chestfeeding Transpeople and Allies
- QueerDoc has supported several adults seeking to establish milk supply. If you are an LGBTQ+ identified person who would like to produce milk with your body, no matter your sex assigned a birth, no matter the size or shape of your chest, we can help. Our work in developing milk supply is informed by the work of:
Adoption Resources
- HRC’s Adoption Resource
- All Children All Families– a map of LGBT friendly adoption and foster agencies that worked with HRC for inclusive training
- Adoptions Together– a LGBT friendly adoption agency
Mail Order Sperm Preservation Resources
- CryoChoice
- Give Legacy
- ReproTech
- Sppare
- Another at home option with a non-affirming name (Dadi)
A note about fertility preservation: fertility preservation is best attempted prior to starting most medications we use to support gender care. Most of the medical interventions used in gender care affect fertility immediatly. So if you took even one dose of medication prior to freezing sperm or eggs, the sample frozen would be lower quality. For folx who have achieved reproductive maturity (completed their endogenous puberty) and have testicles, research and information about return to fertility after gender affirming medical interventions is limited. Spermatogenosis is a 74 day process. Which seems to have lead to conventional wisdom of return to fertility for people with testicles at about two months off of estradiol, progesterone, AND anti-androgens (spirolactone, finasteride/dutasteride, bicalutamide). In clinical practice, our patients have never had viable samples at two months off of gender care meds. It seems more likely that 3-6 months will be required. Studies have also found that gender diverse people whose bodies make sperm are more likely to have issues with those sperm even prior to medical transition then their cis peers. With such limited published literature, we feel less confident in counseling patients with testicles that fertility can be accessed after starting gender affirming medications.
For folx who have achieved reproductive maturity (completed their endogenous puberty) and have ovaries, we have several examples and published literature of people being able to achieve pregnancy or access fertility both off and on testosterone. We feel more confident in counseling patients with ovaries that they will be able to access fertility after starting gender afffirming testosterone if desired.
Financial Support
Unfortunately, most insurance plans do not cover reproductive medicine. Assitive reproductive technologies and adoption can be quite costly. Family equality has created a list of funding sources that might be helpful in building your family.
References:
- Neblett MF, Hipp HS. Fertility considerations in transgender persons. Endocrinol Metab Clin North Am 2019; 48:391–402.[Context Link]Review discussing logistics behind fertility preservation in transwomen and transmen.
- Martinez F, Andersen CY, Barri PN, et al. Update on fertility preservation from the Barcelona International Society for Fertility Preservation-ESHRE-ASRM 2015 expert meeting: indications, results and future perspectives. Fertil Steril 2017; 108:407.e11–415.e11.[Context Link]
- Light A, Wang LF, Zeymo A, Gomez-Lobo V. Family planning and contraception use in transgender men. Contraception 2018; 98:266–269.[Context Link]Article shows the desire for fertility and children in transmen.
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- The Williams Institute, Stotzer RL, Herman JL, Hasenbush A. Transgender parenting: a review of existing research. 2014; Available from: https://williamsinstitute.law.ucla.edu/wp-content/uploads/transgender-parenting-oct-2014.pdf [cited December 1, 2019].[Context Link]
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- Moravek MB, Dixon M, Pena SM, Obedin-Maliver J. Management of testosterone around ovarian stimulation in transmasculine patients: challenging common practices to meet patient needs-2 case reports. Hum Reprod. 2023 Mar 1;38(3):482-488. doi: 10.1093/humrep/dead003. PMID: 36644915; PMCID: PMC9977120.